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Dhammapada & Buddhist verses for calm and hard moments

“Just as a solid rock is not shaken by the storm.” Short verses to hold on to while the weather of the mind passes.

⏱ 4 min read📑 10 sections📚 20 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

How a verse can steady you

A few true words, a slow breath and a place to rest your attention.

When the mind races, a short verse gives it somewhere to land. Saying it slowly, with the breath, can bring your attention back to the present moment. Grounding skills work in a similar way, by gently turning attention to what is here and now.

A meta-analysis of 49 studies found that positive religious coping, such as seeking comfort and strength in faith, was linked with better adjustment to stress.

📜 About the Dhammapada423 verses, loved across Buddhist traditions.
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The Dhammapada is a collection of 423 short verses in 26 chapters, found in the Khuddaka Nikaya of the Pali Canon. Each chapter gathers verses on one theme, such as the mind, anger, happiness or the path.

The verses here come from Acharya Buddharakkhita’s translation. Other translations use different words, and your own teacher may explain a verse in a different way.

🧭 How to use this guidePick one verse. Carry it for a week.
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You do not need to read every verse. Find one that speaks to how you feel today, and learn it by heart. A “handful of leaves” is enough, as the Buddha said in the Simsapa Sutta (see the Buddhist teachings & mental health guide).

Collect your verses in the “My verses for hard moments” worksheet.
🤝 Verses and care togetherA verse can steady you. It does not replace help.
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Verses are a support, like a hand on your shoulder. If you are struggling for weeks, or in crisis, a counselor or doctor can help in ways a verse cannot. Using both is wise.

Verses for anxious, stormy moments

The rock, the still lake and the unshaken mind.

These verses offer pictures of steadiness. They are not about pretending the storm is not there. They remind you that something in you can stay grounded while it passes.

🪨 The solid rockDhammapada 81
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“Just as a solid rock is not shaken by the storm, even so the wise are not affected by praise or blame.” (Dhammapada 81)

When worry about what others think takes over, picture a rock in the wind and rain. The weather is real, and it moves on. The rock stays.

Try it

  1. Feel your feet on the floor and your body on the chair.
  2. Breathe in: “Solid rock.”
  3. Breathe out: “Not shaken.”
  4. Repeat for a few breaths.
🏞️ The deep, clear lakeDhammapada 82
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“On hearing the Teachings, the wise become perfectly purified, like a lake deep, clear and still.” (Dhammapada 82)

A lake can have waves on top while it is still in its depths. When your thoughts are choppy, imagine sinking a little below the surface, to the quiet water underneath.

🛡️ A mind unshakenMaha-mangala Sutta (Sn 2.4)
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The Maha-mangala Sutta lists the greatest blessings, each ending with the refrain “This is the highest protection.” One of them is “A mind that, when touched by the ways of the world, is unshaken, sorrowless, dustless, at rest.”

This describes a goal of long practice. It is not a test you are failing when you feel shaken. Each time you come back to your breath, you are walking toward it.

⏳ Letting go of past and futureDhammapada 348
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“Let go of the past, let go of the future, let go of the present, and cross over to the farther shore of existence.” (Dhammapada 348)

In everyday life, many people use the first part of this verse when they are caught replaying old regrets or rehearsing “what ifs”. You can say it softly, then bring your attention to one breath.

For the Buddha’s teaching on not chasing the past or the future (MN 131), see the Buddhist teachings & mental health guide.

Verses for anger and hurt

Checking the chariot and meeting anger with non-anger.

Anger is a natural feeling, and it often protects something that matters to us. These verses do not ask you to push it away. They show how to hold the reins, so anger does not drive you.

🐎 Holding the reinsDhammapada 222
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“He who checks rising anger as a charioteer checks a rolling chariot, him I call a true charioteer. Others only hold the reins.” (Dhammapada 222)

Try it when anger rises

  1. Notice the first signs: heat, a tight jaw, a fast heart.
  2. Pause, and say inwardly: “Check the chariot.”
  3. Take three slow breaths, longer on the out-breath.
  4. Then choose what to say or do, if anything.
🌤️ Non-anger and goodnessDhammapada 223
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“Overcome the angry by non-anger; overcome the wicked by goodness; overcome the miser by generosity; overcome the liar by truth.” (Dhammapada 223)

Non-anger is not the same as staying in harm. You can set firm boundaries, leave, or seek help, while keeping your own heart from being consumed. If someone is hurting you, see the “Domestic violence: the basics” guide.
🕊️ Hatred is never ended by hatredDhammapada 5
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“Hatred is never appeased by hatred in this world. By non-hatred alone is hatred appeased.” (Dhammapada 5)

Holding on to resentment can keep us awake and tense for years. This verse invites a slow loosening, at your own pace. A counselor can help if anger feels stuck.

😊 Free from hatred among the hostileDhammapada 197
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“Happy indeed we live, friendly amidst the hostile. Amidst hostile men we dwell free from hatred.” (Dhammapada 197)

When the world feels harsh, online or in person, this verse is a reminder that you can choose not to let that harshness move into your own heart.

Verses for self-worth and self-care

Holding yourself dear and protecting your own heart.

Many people can be kind to others but harsh with themselves. These verses describe caring for yourself as part of the path, not as selfishness.

💗 If you hold yourself dearDhammapada 157
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“If one holds oneself dear, one should diligently watch oneself.” (Dhammapada 157)

Watching yourself here can mean caring attention: noticing when you are tired, hungry, lonely or overwhelmed, and responding kindly, as you would for someone you love.

🛡️ Your own protectorDhammapada 160
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“One truly is the protector of oneself; who else could the protector be?” (Dhammapada 160)

Protecting yourself includes asking for help. Reaching out to a friend, a teacher or a counselor is one of the ways you protect yourself.

This verse is not saying you must cope alone. Even the Buddha relied on good friends and taught others to do the same.
🏆 The gentle victoryDhammapada 103
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“Though one may conquer a thousand times a thousand men in battle, yet he indeed is the noblest victor who conquers himself.” (Dhammapada 103)

Conquering yourself does not mean beating yourself up. It can mean small, kind wins: pausing before a harsh word, getting up for a short walk, or keeping an appointment that scares you.

🌸 No one dearer than yourselfRajan Sutta (Ud 5.1)
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“Searching all directions with your awareness, you find no one dearer than yourself.” The verse goes on to say that others hold themselves dear too, so one who loves oneself should not harm others (Udana 5.1).

For loving-kindness toward yourself, see the Buddhist practices for hard times guide.

Verses for grief and loss

Honest words about love, loss and change.

Buddhist texts speak honestly about loss. Some verses can comfort; others can feel hard to hear in fresh grief. Choose the ones that help, and set the others aside for now.

💔 Where grief comes fromDhammapada 212
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“From endearment springs grief, from endearment springs fear.” (Dhammapada 212)

Some people find this verse comforting: grief is a sign of how much you loved. It is not a rule that you should stop loving, or that your tears are wrong.

If you are grieving, be gentle with yourself. See the Grief: understanding loss guide.
🍁 Everything changesDhammapada 277
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“All conditioned things are impermanent.” (Dhammapada 277)

In a dark mood, this verse can be a reminder that feelings pass. In grief, it may feel too sharp at first. Both reactions are okay.

🏡 Welcomed home by good deedsDhammapada 219–220
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“As kinsmen welcome a dear one on arrival, even so his own good deeds will welcome the doer of good who has gone from this world to the next.” (Dhammapada 220)

Many Buddhists find comfort in this picture when someone kind has died. Beliefs about what follows death differ between traditions, so let your own teacher guide you.

🌾 You are not alone in lossThe story of Kisa Gotami.
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The story of Kisa Gotami and the mustard seed, about a mother who learns that every family has known loss, is told in the Buddhist practices for hard times guide.

Use the “A week of verses” worksheet to spend a few quiet minutes each day with a verse that comforts you.

Verses for small steps and hope

Drop by drop, the water pot is filled.

When you feel low, big goals can seem impossible. These verses honor small efforts, patience and simple goods like health and contentment.

🫗 Drop by dropDhammapada 122
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“Think not lightly of good, saying, ‘It will not come to me.’ Drop by drop is the water pot filled. Likewise, the wise man, gathering it little by little, fills himself with good.” (Dhammapada 122)

One short walk, one kind word, one glass of water, one call to a friend. On hard days, these drops count.

🗝️ One useful wordDhammapada 100
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“Better than a thousand useless words is one useful word, hearing which one attains peace.” (Dhammapada 100)

You do not need long practices or many books. One word or phrase you can return to, like “peace” or “breathe”, can be enough.

⏱️ PatienceDhammapada 184
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“Enduring patience is the highest austerity.” (Dhammapada 184)

Healing usually takes time, and progress is rarely a straight line. Patience with yourself is a practice too.

🍵 Health and contentmentDhammapada 204
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“Health is the most precious gain and contentment the greatest wealth. A trustworthy person is the best kinsman, Nibbana the highest bliss.” (Dhammapada 204)

This verse treasures ordinary goods: looking after your health, appreciating what you have, and keeping trustworthy people close.

☸️ The heart of the teachingDhammapada 183
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“To avoid all evil, to cultivate good, and to cleanse one’s mind — this is the teaching of the Buddhas.” (Dhammapada 183)

Many teachers call this verse a summary of the whole path. It can also be a simple daily check: what can I let go of, what can I grow, and how can I rest my mind today?

Chants and refrains across traditions

Metta, protection verses, mantras and the name of the Buddha.

Chanting is part of daily life in many Buddhist communities. Each tradition has its own chants, and the same words may be understood differently. These are a few that many people turn to in hard times.

💗 “May all beings be at ease!”Karaniya Metta Sutta (Sn 1.8)
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The Karaniya Metta Sutta carries the wish “May all beings be at ease!” It describes a love as protective as a mother’s love for her only child.

For a full loving-kindness practice, see the Buddhist practices for hard times guide.
🛡️ “This is the highest protection.”Maha-mangala Sutta (Sn 2.4)
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The Maha-mangala Sutta, a teaching on the greatest blessings, lists blessings such as “Patience, compliance, seeing contemplatives, discussing the Dhamma on timely occasions”, each closing with “This is the highest protection.”

🪷 Om mani padme humThe mantra of Avalokiteshvara, the bodhisattva of compassion.
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This mantra is closely linked with Avalokiteshvara, the bodhisattva who looks on the world with compassion. The 84000 translation project explains it as an invocation of the union of compassion and wisdom, with “mani” (jewel) linked to compassion and “padme” (lotus) to wisdom.

🌅 Namu Amida ButsuThe nembutsu of Pure Land Buddhism.
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In Pure Land and Shin Buddhism, the nembutsu is the practice of reciting “Namu Amida Butsu”, the name of Amida Buddha. Shin teachers describe it as Amida’s call to awaken, rather than a test of how well you recite.

Many people find comfort in a practice that does not depend on getting it “right”, especially on days when meditation feels impossible.

📖 Nam-myoho-renge-kyoChanted by Nichiren Buddhists.
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In Nichiren Buddhism, including the Soka Gakkai, members chant Nam-myoho-renge-kyo, the title of the Lotus Sutra. Many do this morning and evening in a practice called gongyo, together with passages from the Lotus Sutra.

If chanting feels comforting, keep it. If you notice you feel you must repeat a chant many times to feel safe or “clean”, that can be a sign of anxiety or OCD, not a failure of faith. See the Religious OCD (scrupulosity) guide.

Five ways to ground yourself with a verse

Breath, steps, pen, pocket and pillow.

Grounding means bringing your attention back to your body and your surroundings when you feel overwhelmed. Pairing it with a verse can make it feel more personal.

🫁 1. With the breathHalf a verse in, half a verse out.
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  1. Sit or stand comfortably.
  2. Breathe in with the first half of a verse: “Solid rock…”
  3. Breathe out with the second half: “…not shaken by the storm.”
  4. Repeat for one or two minutes.
  5. Notice how your body feels now.
See the Breathing basics guide for more breathing exercises.
🚶 2. With your stepsA verse for walking.
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Walk slowly and say one word of a short verse with each step, such as “Drop… by… drop…”. Feel your feet touch the ground. This can help when sitting still feels too hard.

✍️ 3. With a penCopy a verse slowly by hand.
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Copying a verse slowly, letter by letter, gives busy hands and a busy mind something gentle to do.

Try writing your own verse in the “Write my own verse” worksheet.
🃏 4. In your pocketKeep a verse where you will see it.
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  • A card in your wallet or bag
  • A note on your mirror
  • A sticky note by your desk
  • Your phone lock screen

When you see it, take one slow breath and read it once.

🌙 5. On your pillowA verse to end the day.
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Before sleep, say a calming verse slowly a few times, such as Dhammapada 82 about the deep, still lake, or the wish “May all beings be at ease.”

If worry keeps you awake night after night, talk with your clinical provider. See the Sleep & mental health guide.

When verses feel heavy

Teachings are meant to ease suffering, not add to it.

Sometimes a verse can sound like blame, especially when you are already struggling. Verses about the mind, actions or letting go can be misheard as “it is all your fault”. That is not their purpose.

🙅 Not a reason to blame yourselfMental health has many causes.
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Depression, anxiety and trauma are shaped by many things: our bodies, life events, relationships and stress. A verse that points to training the mind is offering hope, not saying you caused your illness.

See “Not blaming yourself” in the Buddhist teachings & mental health guide.

🔁 When repeating feels like a mustComfort or compulsion?
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Chanting by choice usually brings calm. If you feel you must repeat words a certain number of times, or something bad will happen, that pattern may be anxiety or OCD.

This is common and treatable. A therapist and a trusted teacher can help. See the Religious OCD (scrupulosity) guide.
🗣️ Ask a teacherContext matters.
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Verses were taught in a setting, to particular people, and traditions explain them differently. If a verse troubles you, ask a monk, nun or teacher how they understand it. You can also simply choose a different verse.

When and where to get help

Verses and professional care go together.

It may be time to talk to a professional if

  • Anxiety, anger or grief stays very heavy for weeks
  • Chanting or verses feel like rules you must follow to feel safe
  • You cannot sleep, eat or focus like before
  • You feel hopeless or think about not wanting to live
  • You feel sad, empty or on edge most days for two weeks or more

Where to start

  • A counselor or therapist (it is fine to ask if they respect Buddhist practice)
  • A monk, nun, teacher or chaplain you trust
  • A school counselor, if you are a student
  • Your doctor or clinical provider
If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 (U.S.), or text HOME to 741741. If a life is in danger, call 911. Outside the U.S., find a free helpline at findahelpline.com.

📝 Worksheets for this guide

Fill these in privately in the app. Your answers stay on your phone.

My verses for hard momentsChoose a verse for the feelings you face most, so it is ready when you need it.
A week of versesSpend a few minutes each day with one verse: read it slowly, breathe with it, and notice how you feel.
My verse and breath practicePlan a short grounding practice that pairs a verse with your breath or steps.
Write my own verseWrite a short verse or aspiration in your own words, in the spirit of the Dhammapada.
🔒 Fill in privately in the Mentally United Wellness App. Free, no ads, no accounts.

Sources

  1. Cleveland Clinic (2024). 13 Grounding Techniques for When You Feel Overwhelmed
  2. Peer-reviewed meta-analysis via PubMed (U.S. National Library of Medicine) (2005). Religious coping and psychological adjustment to stress: a meta-analysis (Ano G.G. & Vasconcelles E.B.), Journal of Clinical Psychology 61(4):461–480
  3. Access to Insight. Dhammapada: The Path of Dhamma (Khuddaka Nikaya), index of chapters
  4. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Yamakavagga: Pairs (verses 1–20), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  5. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Panditavagga: The Wise (verses 76–89), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  6. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Sahassavagga: The Thousands (verses 100–115), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  7. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Papavagga: Evil (verses 116–128), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  8. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Attavagga: The Self (verses 157–166), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  9. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Buddhavagga: The Buddha (verses 179–196), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  10. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Sukhavagga: Happiness (verses 197–208), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  11. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Piyavagga: Affection (verses 209–220), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  12. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Kodhavagga: Anger (verses 221–234), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  13. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Maggavagga: The Path (verses 273–289), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  14. Access to Insight. Dhammapada, Tanhavagga: Craving (verses 334–359), trans. Acharya Buddharakkhita
  15. Access to Insight. Maha-mangala Sutta: Protection (Sn 2.4), trans. Thanissaro Bhikkhu
  16. Access to Insight. Karaniya Metta Sutta: The Buddha’s Words on Loving-Kindness (Sn 1.8), trans. The Amaravati Sangha
  17. Access to Insight. Rajan Sutta: The King (Ud 5.1), trans. Thanissaro Bhikkhu
  18. 84000: Translating the Words of the Buddha. The Basket’s Display: The Origins of Om Mani Padme Hum
  19. Lion’s Roar. Key Terms of Shin Buddhism
  20. World Tribune (SGI-USA) (2025). What Is the Benefit of Doing Gongyo Every Day?

This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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