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First responders

You run toward the moments everyone else runs from. You deserve someone in your corner too.

⏱ 7 min read📑 11 sections📚 11 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

Helpers need help too

Why running toward emergencies for a living can wear on your mind and body.

Police officers, firefighters, paramedics, EMTs and 911 dispatchers see people on their worst days. They make fast decisions with high stakes, often on little sleep. Then they are expected to go home and act like it was a normal day at work.

Over time, all of that adds up. A government research review estimated that about 30 percent of first responders develop mental health conditions such as depression and post-traumatic stress, compared with about 20 percent of the general population. That is not because responders are weak. It is because the job keeps putting them in front of pain, danger and loss.

The U.S. Fire Administration warns that more firefighters die by suicide each year than in the line of duty. Hidden injuries are as real as the ones you can see, and they deserve the same care.

Struggling after what you have seen is a human reaction, not a sign that you are bad at your job. The people who hold others up need to be held up too.
Work in a hospital, clinic or care home? See the sibling guide “Healthcare workers.” Saw something terrible as a bystander? See “Witnessing a traumatic event.”

Each role carries its own load

Police, firefighters, EMS and dispatchers. Tap a card.

First responders are usually first on the scene of emergencies and disasters. They protect the public and comfort survivors, often while their own safety is at risk. Each role faces some of the same pressures and some that are its own.

🎧 911 dispatchersHearing the emergency, but never seeing how it ends.
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Dispatchers and call-takers are often the very first responders. They hear screams, gunshots and people begging for help, and they must stay calm and give clear instructions. Then the call ends, and they may never find out what happened.

A 2024 review that pooled studies from nine countries found that about 17.8% of emergency call-handlers and dispatchers showed signs of PTSD and about 28.2% showed signs of depression. You do not have to be at the scene to be affected by trauma.

What can help

  • Being included in debriefs and peer support, just like field crews
  • Being told the outcome when possible
  • Leaders who see dispatchers as first responders
  • Short breaks after very hard calls
Your work saves lives even when you never see the faces. Your reactions to what you hear are real.
🚑 EMS: paramedics & EMTsHands-on care in chaos, with little time between calls.
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Paramedics and EMTs care for people at the scene and on the way to the hospital. They work fast, in tight spaces, often with family members watching. Then they clean up and take the next call.

One study cited by SAMHSA found that 69 percent of EMS professionals said they never had enough time to recover between traumatic events. Research reviewed by SAMHSA also suggests EMS workers may be more likely than the general public to think about suicide.

What can help

  • A partner or supervisor who checks in
  • A short reset after very hard calls
  • Peer support and confidential counseling
  • Time off that is truly off
🔥 FirefightersFires, rescues, medical calls, and sleep broken by the alarm.
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Firefighters do far more than fight fires. Many calls are medical emergencies, crashes or rescues. SAMHSA notes that repeated exposure to painful scenes and broken sleep can put firefighters’ mental health at risk.

Most U.S. firefighters are volunteers (about 69 percent). Volunteers may face extra barriers to care, such as cost, travel, and getting time off from their other job. In one study, people who did both firefighting and EMS were more likely to report a suicide attempt than those who only fought fires.

What can help

  • Crew support: talking and bonding after hard calls
  • Peer support teams inside the department
  • Protecting sleep on days off
  • Watching alcohol use, which the U.S. Fire Administration says is a common and often unrecognized way of coping
The crew culture of looking out for each other is a strength. Use it for hidden injuries too.
👮 Police officersDanger, critical incidents and a public that may not trust you.
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Police officers face danger, violence and tragic scenes, sometimes in the same shift. In one study cited by SAMHSA, about three in four officers said they had experienced a traumatic event, but fewer than half had told their agency about it.

The U.S. Department of Justice’s COPS Office has described policing as a job made more stressful by an undercurrent of distrust and negative public opinion. A federal law, the Law Enforcement Mental Health and Wellness Act, led to reports on peer mentoring, crisis lines and officer wellness programs.

Pressures officers describe

  • Feeling they must always look in control
  • Seeing the same people and places in crisis again and again
  • Split-second decisions that are later judged by others
  • Worry that asking for help will affect their career

Research also links burnout at work with a higher risk of suicidal thoughts among officers. Caring for burnout early matters.

Copline is a free, confidential 24/7 line for current and retired law enforcement and their families, answered by retired officers: 1-800-267-5463.

The pressures of the job

Trauma, shift work, high stakes and the station itself, and how they stack up.

Most jobs have stress. Emergency work has a special mix: you are exposed to other people’s trauma again and again, the stakes are life and death, and the schedule fights your body clock. Each pressure on its own is hard. Together they can drain even the strongest person.

🎯 High stakesA small mistake can cost a life, and you know it.
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A dispatcher deciding which unit to send, a medic choosing a treatment, an officer making a split-second call: each decision can change someone’s life. Living with that pressure every day keeps the stress system switched on.

It can show up as

  • Fear of making a mistake, or of being blamed
  • Feeling responsible for outcomes you could not control
  • Replaying decisions long after a shift ends
  • Trouble switching off at home

Training, practice and a team you trust help. SAMHSA notes that specialized training, skill and confidence in yourself and your team are linked to lower stress.

🏚️ The culture at workSometimes the hardest part isn’t the calls.
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The U.S. Fire Administration notes that a toxic work environment, such as poor leadership, discrimination, favoritism and exclusion, is one of the top two causes of stress for firefighters, ahead of the calls themselves.

SAMHSA’s review also found that poor relationships with supervisors are linked with more trauma symptoms, while approachable leaders and team spirit help protect responders.

If the station or squad room itself feels unsafe, that is a real source of stress, not you being “too sensitive.”
🔁 Repeated exposure to traumaSeeing injury, death and suffering, not once but over and over.
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Most people see a few truly frightening events in their whole life. Responders may see several in a single week: car crashes, fires, violence, a child who is badly hurt. Each one leaves a small mark, and the marks can build up.

The U.S. Fire Administration puts it simply: daily exposure to death, suffering and chaos builds up. It doesn’t take one catastrophic call to break someone down.

What can help

  • A short pause after a hard call, even two minutes of slow breathing in the rig
  • Leaders building recovery time into the schedule after very hard incidents
  • Noticing when one call keeps replaying in your mind, and telling someone
  • Talking it through with a trusted coworker who “gets it”
You do not have to “earn” the right to be affected. A call can hit hard because of something in your own life, and that is normal.
🌙 Shift work & broken sleepNights, 24-hour shifts and overtime fight against the body’s clock.
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Your body has an internal clock that expects sleep at night. Night shifts, 24-hour tours and overtime push against that clock. The U.S. Fire Administration notes that sleep loss makes everything worse, including how strongly you react to stress.

Try this

  • Avoid caffeine in the last few hours before you plan to sleep
  • Make your room dark, cool and quiet (blackout curtains, earplugs, fan)
  • Put your phone on do-not-disturb and tell family your sleep hours
  • Wear sunglasses on the drive home after a night shift
For a full shift-work sleep plan, see “Sleep & shift work” in the Healthcare workers guide, or the Sleep & mental health guide.
⚠️ Danger & public scrutinyBeing threatened, hurt, filmed or blamed while trying to help.
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Responders are often on the receiving end of people’s fear, anger and pain. Some calls put your own life at risk. Afterward, decisions may be judged in the news or on social media by people who were not there.

SAMHSA’s review notes that being injured yourself is one of the things that raises the risk of longer-lasting trauma reactions.

What can help

  • Check in with your partner or crew after a scary moment
  • Limit how much coverage of your own incidents you read
  • Report every assault or threat, even “small” ones
  • Talk with a peer supporter if a call keeps replaying

Critical incidents & cumulative stress

When one call, or many, leaves a lasting mark.

A critical incident is an event so shocking or sad that it overwhelms the usual ways of coping: the death of a child, a coworker hurt or killed, a mass-casualty event, or a call that hits too close to home. Strong reactions in the days after are normal.

For most people, these reactions ease within weeks. For some, they stay or grow: memories that intrude, nightmares, feeling on edge, or avoiding anything that brings it back. SAMHSA’s review notes that being hurt yourself, working long hours on scene, and poor support from coworkers and supervisors all raise the risk of longer-lasting trauma.

💥 The big callOne event that stays with you.
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A line-of-duty death, a child who could not be saved, a scene with many victims. These events can shake your sense of safety and meaning, even if you have done the job for years.

In the first days

  • Eat, drink water and try to rest, even if sleep is broken
  • Expect waves of feeling, numbness, or replaying the call
  • Spend time with people who steady you
  • You don’t have to talk about details until you are ready
Strong reactions after an extreme event are normal. They are a sign of a human nervous system, not a weak one.
🧱 Cumulative stressNot one call, but a thousand small ones.
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Many responders say it wasn’t one call that broke them. It was the slow pile-up of calls, overtime and missed sleep, with no time to process one before the next one came.

SAMHSA’s review cites a study where 69 percent of EMS professionals said they never had enough time to recover between traumatic events. When there is no time to recover, the mind can stay stuck on high alert.

What can help

  • A regular check-in, like the “After-shift check-in” worksheet
  • Days off that are truly off
  • Small rituals that mark the end of a shift
  • Telling someone when you notice the pile getting heavy
🌫️ Secondary traumaOther people’s trauma starts living in you.
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Secondary traumatic stress is emotional distress that comes from seeing or hearing about another person’s trauma. It can look like the reactions of people who went through the event directly: images that pop into your mind, bad dreams, feeling on edge, or avoiding reminders.

SAMHSA notes that responders who identify with survivors can be hit harder. A medic who cares for a child the same age as their own may find that call much harder to shake.

🧭 When it goes against your valuesGuilt, anger or betrayal after a call that felt wrong.
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Sometimes the deepest wound is not fear but a sense that something went against what you believe is right: a rescue you couldn’t make, an order you disagreed with, or leaders who let you down. The VA calls this moral injury, and says first responders can experience it too.

See the Moral injury guide for much more, including what helps.

What protects people after hard events

  • Being thanked and acknowledged for the work
  • Feeling well trained and confident in your team
  • Not keeping it all inside: avoiding every thought about it tends to make stress worse
  • Support from coworkers and leaders who are approachable
For more about trauma reactions and proven trauma therapies, see the PTSD guide.

Common triggers

What can bring hard calls back, and what helps. Tap a card.

Responders often cope well in the moment and feel it later. A smell, a date or a certain kind of call can bring an old event rushing back, sometimes years on. Knowing your triggers doesn’t make you weak. It lets you “cope ahead” instead of being caught off guard.

📅 AnniversariesThe date of a bad call, a line-of-duty death or a disaster.
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The VA’s National Center for PTSD describes “anniversary reactions”: as a date comes round, people may feel sad, jittery or on edge, sleep badly, or relive what happened. It can happen even without realizing why.

What helps

  • Do something meaningful: visit a memorial, volunteer, spend time with family
  • Limit news or social media about the event if it stirs you up
  • Mark the date in your calendar and plan ahead
  • Protect sleep, food and exercise around the date
  • Tell people you trust what kind of support you need
Most people feel better within a week or two after an anniversary. If it lasts longer, reach out for support.
🏠 Calls that hit close to homeA child, someone your age, or a scene that looks like your own family.
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Some events land harder than others: the death of a child, a coworker hurt, or a person who reminds you of someone you love. Working with children who have been through trauma is a well-known hazard for secondary traumatic stress.

What helps

  • Do a small ritual to mark the end of a hard shift, like a shower or a walk before going home
  • Hug your people, and let them know it was a hard day, without sharing details
  • Name it with your team: “That one got to me”
  • Use peer support or a check-in after the shift, not weeks later
Being affected by a call means you care. It is not a sign you’re in the wrong job.
🪫 Running on emptyLong hours, little sleep and poor support make everything hit harder.
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SAMHSA’s research review notes that long hours on scene, being injured yourself and poor support from coworkers are linked with stronger, longer-lasting reactions after hard events. A tired brain has less in reserve to process what it has seen.

What helps

  • Eat and drink something during long shifts
  • Lean on approachable coworkers and leaders
  • Treat sleep as safety equipment
  • Use your days off to truly rest and reconnect
🚨 Sights, sounds and smellsSirens, smoke, a radio tone or a certain smell can switch the alarm on.
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Trauma memories store details of danger, so the brain can react to reminders as if the danger is back. SAMHSA notes that smells or sounds such as smoke or sirens can set off distress for people who lived through a disaster. For responders, these cues are part of the job, which can make them harder to escape.

What helps

  • Ground yourself: feel your feet, name five things you can see
  • If reminders keep pulling you back, talk to a trauma-trained therapist
  • Notice the cue, and remind yourself: “That was then. I’m safe right now.”
  • Slow your breathing for a minute
Jot your own triggers in the “After-shift check-in” and “My early warning signs” worksheets.

Signs the job is getting to you

Common ways stress, trauma and exhaustion show up.

Stress from emergency work often sneaks up slowly. People around you may notice changes before you do. Here are some common experiences responders describe.

In your body and mind

  • Calls replaying in your head, or bad dreams
  • Feeling jumpy, on guard or easily startled
  • Feeling numb, or not caring the way you used to
  • Feeling tired even after a day off
  • Headaches, stomach trouble or getting sick more often

In how you act

  • Dreading going to work, or calling in sick more
  • Drinking more, or using other things to “switch off”
  • Pulling away from friends or things you enjoyed
  • Snapping at family or coworkers
  • Taking more risks, or not caring about your own safety
Having some of these experiences doesn’t mean you have a mental health condition. Social media videos that say “if you have these signs, you have X” are not a diagnosis. People are complex, and only a qualified professional can assess what’s going on for you. Please talk to your clinical provider or therapist.

The culture of silence

Why responders often stay quiet, and why that is changing.

Many responders worry that asking for help will make them look weak or unfit for duty. Some fear losing a promotion, their certification, their spot on the team or their job. These fears are real, and they keep many people from getting care until things are very hard.

Silence has a cost. In one study cited by SAMHSA, about three in four officers had experienced a traumatic event, but fewer than half had told their agency. Things are changing: federal reports on officer wellness, and the U.S. Fire Administration’s message that “asking for help is not weakness,” are pushing departments toward confidential support.

🙅 Myth: “It’s just part of the job.”Hard things are part of the job. Suffering alone doesn’t have to be.
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Exposure to trauma is part of emergency work. But lasting distress, burnout and a toxic workplace are not things you simply have to accept. Workplaces can change, and people can heal.

🤐 Myth: “Getting help will end my career.”For most people, getting help early protects their career.
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Untreated stress, trauma and burnout are far more likely to hurt your work than getting support. Many services, like peer support lines and employee assistance programs, are confidential.

Ask before you start

  • Is this service separate from my employer?
  • What, if anything, would ever be shared, and when?
  • Who will see my information?
If you are unsure, start with a confidential outside line such as Copline or Safe Call Now, or a private therapist.
💪 Myth: “Strong people handle it alone.”Strong crews handle things together.
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In emergency work, nobody works alone. You rely on partners, crews and squads. SAMHSA’s review found that social support and good relationships with coworkers and leaders protect responders’ mental health.

You would never tell a partner to “walk off” a broken leg. Hidden injuries deserve the same care.

Peer support, programs & therapy

What each kind of help is, and what the research says.

Many departments offer programs to help staff after hard events, and responders can and do get better. It helps to know what each option is and what the evidence says. For anything medical, consult with your clinical provider.

🫂 Peer support teamsTrained coworkers who listen and connect you to help.
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Peer supporters are coworkers trained to check in, listen and point people toward more help when needed. Because they have done the job, people often trust them more easily. The U.S. Fire Administration notes that trained peers are what firefighters respond to, and that programs are expanding nationwide.

In a study described by SAMHSA, firefighters said they benefited from peer support and from bonding with their crew after hard incidents.

A good peer program

  • Has clear links to professional counselors
  • Includes dispatchers, support staff and families
  • Is voluntary and confidential
  • Trains peers well and supports them too
📋 Critical incident stress management (CISM)A group of supports offered after very hard events.
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CISM is a package of supports used by many agencies, such as briefings, check-ins, group talks and follow-up. One part, critical incident stress debriefing (CISD), is a structured group meeting soon after an event.

The evidence is mixed. SAMHSA notes that some firefighters found debriefing helpful while others found it intrusive and felt more upset afterward. A Cochrane review found no evidence that single-session debriefing prevents PTSD and said compulsory debriefing should stop.

What this means for you

  • If reactions last weeks, reach out for trauma-focused therapy
  • Practical support, rest and follow-up check-ins often matter more than one meeting
  • Taking part should be your choice
  • You don’t have to share details you aren’t ready to share
🛟 Employee assistance & counselingShort-term confidential counseling through work.
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Many employers offer an employee assistance program (EAP) with a few free counseling sessions for you and your family. Ask HR or your union how it works and whether counselors understand first responders.

The U.S. Fire Administration notes that clinicians who understand fire service culture get better engagement and results than outside providers who don’t.

It is fine to ask a therapist, “Have you worked with first responders before?”
🗣️ Trauma-focused therapyProven talk therapies for lasting trauma reactions.
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Therapies such as cognitive processing therapy, prolonged exposure and EMDR help people make sense of hard memories so they hurt less and lose their grip. They usually take a set number of weekly sessions. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can also help with stuck thoughts like “I should have done more,” worry, low mood and sleep.

What to expect

  • Building skills to calm your body
  • Learning how trauma affects the body and mind
  • Looking at stuck thoughts like “It was all my fault”
  • Slowly and safely facing memories you have been avoiding
See the Therapies for trauma guide for more on each therapy.
🏡 Life outside the uniformBeing more than your badge, helmet or patch.
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When your whole identity is your job, a bad week at work can feel like a bad life. Hobbies, faith, friends who aren’t in the field, and time with family give you other places to stand. Regular exercise, slow breathing and time outdoors also help reset the stress system.

Ideas

  • A friend group outside work
  • A hobby that has nothing to do with emergencies
  • Rituals that mark the end of a shift
  • Volunteering for something joyful

Families, loved ones & community

How the job touches home, and how to support a responder you love.

Families of responders live with the job too. They miss holidays, juggle odd schedules, and worry when their loved one is on a dangerous call. Sometimes the person comes home quiet, short-tempered or distant, and families don’t know why.

🧒 For childrenKids notice more than we think.
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Children may worry when a parent works in danger, or feel sad when a parent misses events. Simple, honest explanations help: “Dad had a hard day helping people. He’s tired, but he loves you.”

Ideas

  • Keep routines steady when schedules change
  • Let kids ask questions, and answer at their level
  • Make special traditions for shift days
  • Reassure them they are not the cause of a parent’s mood
🫶 Family supportYou are part of the team too.
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Many departments include families in peer support, family nights and counseling through employee assistance programs. Copline serves the families of law enforcement officers, and Safe Call Now serves family members of public safety and emergency services workers.

❤️ For partners & spousesStaying close when work takes so much.
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Ideas that help

  • Agree on a simple signal for “I had a hard shift and need a bit of quiet”
  • Look after your own stress, too
  • Plan small, regular time together that work can’t take
  • You don’t need all the details of a call to offer support
If you are worried about your loved one’s safety, or your own, reach out for help. You can call or text 988 to talk it through.

Supporting a responder you love

  1. Notice changes and mention them gently: “You seem more tired lately. How are you really doing?”
  2. Listen without pushing for details of what they saw.
  3. Offer practical help: a meal, childcare, covering a chore after a long shift.
  4. Encourage support: the peer team, a confidential line, or a therapist.
  5. Check in again later. Hard calls can hit days or weeks afterward.

Try to avoid

  • “I could never do your job.” (It can make them feel more alone.)
  • Asking for gory details out of curiosity
  • Joking about their stress or drinking
  • Telling them to “just leave it at work”

You don’t need to be a therapist to help. Being steady, patient and present often matters most. Community, from neighbors to faith groups to friends, can remind helpers that they are not alone.

Communities can help too: thank-you notes from schools, meals from neighbors, and local events that honor responders all send the message “we see you.”

By the numbers

What research tells us about first responders’ mental health.

United States

30% vs 20%Estimated share of first responders who develop mental health conditions such as depression and PTSD, compared with the general population (SAMHSA, 2018).
69%of U.S. firefighters are volunteers (cited by SAMHSA).
800,000About how many police officers, deputies, troopers and agents serve in the U.S. (U.S. Department of Justice).

By role

3 in 4police officers in one study had experienced a traumatic event, but fewer than half told their agency (cited by SAMHSA).
30%of firefighters experienced behavioral health symptoms (U.S. Fire Administration).
22% vs 3.5%PTSD found in large U.S. fire departments, compared with the national rate (U.S. Fire Administration).
69%of EMS professionals in one study said they never had enough time to recover between traumatic events (cited by SAMHSA).

Dispatchers (world)

17.8%Pooled share of emergency call-handlers and dispatchers showing signs of PTSD, across studies in nine countries (2024 review).
28.2%Pooled share of dispatchers and call-handlers showing signs of depression (2024 review).
Many of these studies use surveys and small or volunteer samples, so numbers vary. What they agree on: responders carry a heavy load, and support makes a real difference.

When and where to get help

Signs it’s time to reach out, and who to call.

Reach out if…

  • Memories, nightmares or feeling on edge last more than a few weeks
  • You are drinking or using other things to cope
  • You dread work or feel numb most of the time
  • You feel hopeless, trapped, or like a burden
  • You have any thoughts of hurting yourself or someone else
  • Your relationships are suffering

Where to start

  1. Talk to your clinical provider, or a therapist who works with first responders.
  2. Contact your peer support team or employee assistance program.
  3. Law enforcement and their families can call Copline, 24/7, answered by retired officers: 1-800-267-5463.
  4. Public safety and emergency services workers and their families can call Safe Call Now, a confidential 24-hour line: 206-459-3020.
  5. Tell one person you trust how you are really doing.
Outside the U.S.? Find free, confidential helplines in your country at findahelpline.com, and ask your service about its peer support or welfare program.
If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 (U.S.), or text HOME to 741741. If a life is in danger, call 911.

📝 Worksheets for this guide

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After-shift check-inA quick way to notice how the job is affecting you, before it builds up.
After a hard call: my planDecide now what you will do after a critical incident, so you don’t have to figure it out on the worst day.
My early warning signsKnow your own signs that stress is building, so you can act early.
My support teamKeep your people and numbers in one place, so they are easy to find on a hard day.
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Sources

  1. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), Disaster Technical Assistance Center (2018). First Responders: Behavioral Health Concerns, Emergency Response, and Trauma (Supplemental Research Bulletin)
  2. U.S. Fire Administration (FEMA), National Fire Data Center (2026). Firefighter Health Series: Behavioral Health (handout)
  3. U.S. Department of Justice, Office of Community Oriented Policing Services (COPS Office) (2019). Law Enforcement Mental Health and Wellness Act reports (Community Policing Dispatch)
  4. Occupational Medicine (Osório et al.) (2024). Systematic review and meta-analysis on the mental health of emergency and urgent call-handlers and dispatchers
  5. National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN). Secondary Traumatic Stress
  6. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Moral Injury and PTSD
  7. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Trauma Reminders: Anniversaries
  8. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). Disaster Memorial Dates and Activating Events
  9. Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews (Rose, Bisson, Churchill & Wessely) (2002). Psychological debriefing for preventing post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
  10. CopLine. CopLine: The International Law Enforcement Officers’ Hotline
  11. Tennessee Department of Mental Health and Substance Abuse Services. First Responder Mental Health (lists CopLine and Safe Call Now)

This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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