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Therapies for trauma

What happened to you can become a memory, not a daily weight. These therapies are built to help with exactly that.

⏱ 4 min read📑 10 sections📚 22 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

By the numbers

How common trauma struggles are, and how long trauma therapies take.

How common

6 in 100people in the U.S. will have PTSD at some point in their lives.
13 millionAmericans had PTSD in 2020.
8% vs 4%of women and men will have PTSD at some point in their lives.

How long therapy takes

≈3 monthsis how long most trauma-focused talk therapies for PTSD last.
12weekly sessions is the usual length of Cognitive Processing Therapy.
8–15weekly sessions is the usual length of Prolonged Exposure.
5sessions is all Written Exposure Therapy takes.
3–6EMDR sessions are typical for a single traumatic event; complex trauma may take 8–12 or more.

Research

25controlled trials have tested Trauma-Focused CBT for children and teens aged 3 to 18.
178veterans took part in a VA trial where both Written Exposure Therapy and Prolonged Exposure helped, and more people finished WET.
Numbers describe groups, not you. Some people feel better after a few sessions; others need longer, and both are OK.

What is trauma therapy?

Therapies that help painful memories lose their grip.

After trauma, memories can stay “raw” and easily triggered. Trauma-focused therapies help the brain process what happened so it can be remembered without taking over. The VA says several trauma-focused talk therapies are highly recommended for PTSD.

🎯 Trauma-focused therapyWorks directly with the memory of what happened and what it left behind.
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Trauma-focused therapies help you look at the trauma memory, or the beliefs and avoidance that grew from it, in a safe, guided way. The ones with the most research behind them are Cognitive Processing Therapy, Prolonged Exposure and EMDR.

Others with less research so far include Written Exposure Therapy and Cognitive Therapy for PTSD. Most of these therapies last about 3 months.

🪑 Present-centred therapyFocuses on today’s problems without going deep into the trauma.
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Present-Centered Therapy has some research support. It does not ask you to talk about the trauma in depth. Instead, it focuses on current problems linked to the trauma or to PTSD symptoms, like stress at work or in relationships.

If you are not ready to look at the memory yet, ask about this kind of option. You can move to a trauma-focused therapy later.
🤲 Trauma-informed careA way of working that puts safety, choice and trust first.
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Trauma-informed care is not one therapy. It is a way any service can work: understanding how trauma affects people and avoiding care that feels re-traumatizing. A good trauma therapist works this way.

The Healing from trauma guide explains trauma-informed care and what to ask for.
This guide helps you learn; it does not diagnose. You don’t have to have PTSD to benefit from talking with a trauma therapist. Please talk with your clinical provider or therapist about what fits you.

EMDR

Recall a hard memory while following a back-and-forth movement or sound.

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) was developed by psychologist Francine Shapiro; the first trial was in 1989. You briefly hold a traumatic memory in mind while following a side-to-side movement, light or tone. Over time the memory becomes less intense.

🗓️ How sessions goCalming skills first, then short sets of memory work.
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Step by step

  • First you learn about trauma reactions and build calming skills
  • You choose a memory to work on, with the thoughts and body feelings linked to it
  • You hold the memory for about 30 seconds while following the movement, then talk about what came up
  • Later you strengthen a more positive belief about yourself

You usually don’t have to describe every detail out loud, and there is no homework.

⏳ How long it takesOften about 3 months of weekly sessions.
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EMDR often takes about 3 months of weekly 50–90-minute sessions. A single traumatic event may take 3–6 sessions; complex trauma may take 8–12 or more.

🔬 What the evidence saysOne of the best-studied trauma therapies.
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The VA lists EMDR among the trauma-focused therapies with the most research support for PTSD. Experts still debate exactly why it works, but not whether it helps. It is also used for anxiety, phobias and other trauma-linked struggles.

🔎 Finding an EMDR therapistLook for specific EMDR training.
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EMDR should be done by a licensed clinician trained specifically in it. Ask how many people they have treated with EMDR and how they prepare you before memory work starts.

Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT)

Untangle “stuck” thoughts about trauma, like blame, safety and trust.

CPT is a trauma-focused talk therapy that helps you notice and question upsetting beliefs that took hold after trauma, such as “It was my fault” or “Nowhere is safe”.

📝 What happensLearning, writing and checking the facts behind stuck thoughts.
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  • You learn about PTSD and how the therapy works
  • You write about how the trauma has affected you
  • You check whether the facts support your stuck thoughts, and consider fairer ones
  • You may choose to write a detailed account and read it aloud
  • Later sessions focus on safety, trust, control, self-esteem and closeness
⏳ How long it takesUsually 12 weekly sessions, alone or in a group.
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CPT usually takes 12 weekly sessions. It can be one-to-one (about 60 minutes) or in a group of about 6–10 people (about 90 minutes). Some people feel better after a few sessions.

🔬 What the evidence saysOne of the most researched PTSD therapies.
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The VA lists CPT among the trauma-focused therapies with the most research support for PTSD. Talking about trauma can be uncomfortable, but this usually eases as you continue.

Prolonged Exposure & Written Exposure

Slowly approach memories and places you’ve been avoiding, by talking or writing.

Avoiding reminders of trauma brings short relief but can keep PTSD going. Exposure therapies help you gradually approach trauma-related memories, feelings and situations so they become less frightening.

🛤️ Prolonged Exposure (PE)Talk through the memory and take real-world steps, at your pace.
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What happens

  • Early on you learn a breathing skill to manage anxiety
  • You list people, places or activities you’ve avoided, and work through them step by step
  • You talk through the memory in session at your own pace
  • Between sessions you listen to a recording of yourself and practise real-world steps

PE usually takes 8–15 weekly sessions of 60–90 minutes, over about 3 months. The VA lists it among the trauma therapies with the most research support. Discomfort is usually mild to moderate and fades.

🖊️ Written Exposure Therapy (WET)A short, five-session therapy where you write about the trauma.
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In WET, you write about a specific traumatic event during sessions, with a therapist’s support. There is no homework between sessions. The VA describes it as a brief, 5-session therapy.

In a VA trial of 178 veterans, both WET and Prolonged Exposure helped. People who had WET were more likely to finish treatment, and it needed fewer sessions. The VA says it has less research than CPT, PE and EMDR so far.

🧠 Cognitive Therapy for PTSDRevisiting the memory to change painful thoughts about it.
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Cognitive Therapy for PTSD revisits the trauma memory to change negative thoughts about what happened. The VA lists it among trauma-focused therapies with less research support than the top three.

Exposure is never about forcing you. A good therapist agrees the pace with you, and you can always ask to slow down.

Trauma therapy for children & teens

TF-CBT and other ways kids heal, with parents or caregivers alongside.

Trauma-Focused CBT (TF-CBT) helps children and teens recover after trauma. It works in phases, building coping skills first and then gently processing what happened.

🧸 How TF-CBT worksFor ages 3 to 18, with a caregiver involved.
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  • For ages 3 to 18
  • The therapist meets with the child and the parent or caregiver, mostly side by side
  • There are also joint child–parent sessions
  • Usually 8 to 25 sessions
🔬 What the evidence saysTested in 25 controlled trials.
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TF-CBT has been tested in 25 controlled trials and many real-world studies, with strong evidence it helps across genders, races, ethnicities and types of trauma.

👪 Why parents matterYour steady support is part of the healing.
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NIMH notes that effective therapy for children often includes parent involvement and skills practised at home. In TF-CBT, caregivers learn the same skills so they can support them every day.

Play and art can help younger children too. See the Creative & body-based therapies guide.

What trauma therapy feels like

Safety first, your pace, and why it can feel harder before it feels better.

🛡️ Safety comes firstYou don’t have to tell everything on day one.
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Good trauma therapy starts with learning about trauma and building calming skills. EMDR, PE and TF-CBT all begin this way before any memory work.

📈 Harder before betterDiscomfort is expected and usually fades.
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Facing hard memories can be uncomfortable at first. In CPT and PE, this discomfort is expected and usually eases as you continue. If you feel much worse, tell your therapist straight away.

📝 Practice between sessionsSome therapies have homework, some don’t.
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CPT and PE include practice between sessions, like writing or small real-world steps. EMDR and Written Exposure Therapy have no homework.

💻 Therapy by videoTrauma therapy can work well from home.
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Many VA trials found PTSD therapy by video works as well as in person in most cases. This can help if travel is hard or there are no trauma therapists nearby.

Finding a trauma therapist

Signs of good trauma care and questions to ask.

Signs of good PTSD care (VA)

  • You follow a proven treatment
  • You’re involved in your care
  • You are improving
  • Your progress is measured
❓ Questions to askIt’s normal to ask about training and approach.
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  • Which trauma therapies are you trained in?
  • How many people have you treated with this approach?
  • How will we prepare before working on memories?
  • How will we track whether it’s helping?
  • What happens if I feel overwhelmed between sessions?
🧭 Comparing optionsThe VA has a free tool to compare PTSD treatments.
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The National Center for PTSD’s PTSD Treatment Decision Aid helps you learn about proven treatments, compare the ones that might suit you, and prepare to talk them over with your care team.

🙅 Red flagsBe careful with big promises.
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Be cautious of anyone who promises a quick cure or claims to “release trauma” in one session. Ask about their license and training, and whether they use a proven treatment.

Body-based approaches are covered in the Healing from trauma and Creative & body-based therapies guides.

Supporting someone in trauma therapy

Steady, patient support without pushing for details.

👂 Let them leadThey choose what to share, and when.
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  • Don’t give advice unless you are asked
  • Give them space if they pull away, and let them know you’ll be there later
  • Remember you can’t force change; your steady presence still matters
  • Tell them you want to listen, and that it’s fine if now isn’t the time

Try not to ask for details of the trauma or the sessions. Let them share if and when they want to.

🌧️ Expect some hard daysTough weeks can be part of the work.
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Trauma therapy can stir up feelings before things ease. A rough week doesn’t mean therapy is failing. Gently encourage them to tell their therapist how they’re doing.

🌿 Look after yourself tooSupporters need support.
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It’s normal to feel helpless at times, and you don’t have to know everything. The VA encourages family members to look after their own physical and mental health and keep up their own activities and friendships.

Places to lean on

  • A faith or spiritual group
  • A support group
  • Doctors or other health professionals
  • Family, friends, coworkers and neighbours

When and where to get help

Signs it’s time to reach out, and help right now.

It may be time to reach out if…

  • Memories, nightmares or being on edge get in the way of daily life
  • It’s been weeks and the reactions aren’t easing
  • You avoid people, places or things that remind you of what happened
  • You’re using alcohol, drugs or other habits to cope
  • People who care about you are worried
🚪 Where to startYour primary care provider, a therapist directory or FindTreatment.gov.
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You can ask your primary care provider for a referral, contact your insurance or EAP, or use FindTreatment.gov, SAMHSA’s locator for mental health services. Veterans can also ask their VA care team about trauma therapies.

🌍 Outside the U.S.Find free helplines in your country.
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Find A Helpline lists free, confidential helplines in many countries. In an emergency, contact your local emergency number.

If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 (U.S.), or text HOME to 741741. Veterans can dial 988 and press 1. If a life is in danger, call 911.

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Questions for a trauma therapistUse this when you contact a therapist, so you can compare and choose someone you trust.
My before & after session planTrauma therapy can stir things up. Plan small ways to settle yourself around each session.
How is trauma therapy going?Check in every few weeks and share it with your therapist. Measuring progress is part of good trauma care.
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Sources

  1. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. How Common Is PTSD in Adults?
  2. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Talk Therapy for PTSD
  3. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Cognitive Processing Therapy for PTSD
  4. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Prolonged Exposure for PTSD
  5. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) for PTSD
  6. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA Boston Healthcare System) (2023). Study finds written exposure therapy effective option for treating PTSD
  7. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Signs of Good PTSD Care
  8. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. PTSD Treatment Decision Aid
  9. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Helping a Family Member Who Has PTSD
  10. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD. Common Reactions After Trauma
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  12. Cleveland Clinic. Exposure Therapy
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  14. National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN). Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  15. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). Children and Mental Health: Is This Just a Stage?
  16. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) (2024). Psychotherapies
  17. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
  18. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). Help for Mental Illnesses
  19. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). Trauma-Informed Approaches and Programs
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  21. ThroughLine (Find A Helpline). Find A Helpline
  22. International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP). Crisis Centres and Helplines

This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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