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Texting or chatting with a crisis line

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⏱ 3 min read📑 11 sections📚 21 sources✅ Reviewed October 2026

By the numbers

What we know about crisis text and chat.

Crisis text and chat services are newer than phone lines, and research is still growing. These findings come from large studies of real conversations.

Does it help?

Nearly 90%of texters with suicidal thoughts said their Crisis Text Line conversation was helpful (study of 85,877 texter surveys, 2017–2018).
Nearly halfof those texters said they felt less suicidal by the end of the conversation.
Two-thirdsof chatters with suicidal thoughts said their Lifeline crisis chat was helpful (2017–2018 study).
Less distressedchatters felt, on average, by the end of a Lifeline crisis chat than at the start.

How it works

~7 millionconversations had been answered by Crisis Text Line from its start in 2013 to 2022.
5 minis the usual wait to connect with a Crisis Text Line counselor, though it can take longer at busy times.
15–45 minis how long a Crisis Text Line conversation typically lasts.
240+languages are covered by free phone interpreters on 988. Text and chat are offered in English and Spanish.

Why text or chat instead of calling?

Lots of people find typing easier, and that’s completely okay.

Crisis support used to mean phone calls. Today many services also offer text and online chat, so you can reach out in the way that feels safest.

🫥 Feeling more anonymousTyping can feel less exposing than hearing your own voice.
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Crisis line responders said people often choose chat or text because they want more anonymity.

🤫 Not able to talk out loudSomeone might overhear, or speaking feels impossible right now.
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Responders also said some people text or chat because they can’t use the phone at that moment.

👣 A first stepTexting can be the first time someone reaches out at all.
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Responders on the Veterans Crisis Line said chat and text are often people’s first contact with mental health support.

🤟 Deaf and hard of hearingText and chat can be easier than voice calls.
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Text and chat work without hearing. 988 can also be reached on a videophone with counselors who use American Sign Language, or by TTY (dial 711, then 988).

⌛ Time to thinkYou can take a moment before you reply.
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Crisis Text Line encourages people to chat at their own pace.

You don’t have to be suicidal to reach out. Any kind of emotional distress is a good enough reason.

Which service can I text or chat?

Free, confidential U.S. options, 24/7.

📞 988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineText 988, or chat at 988lifeline.org. Anyone in the U.S.
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You can call or text 988, or chat online at 988lifeline.org. It is free, confidential and available 24/7.

You don’t have to share personal information or insurance details to get support.

✉️ Crisis Text LineText HOME to 741741. Anyone in the U.S.
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Text HOME to 741741 to reach a trained volunteer crisis counselor, free and 24/7. Crisis Text Line also offers web chat and WhatsApp.

🎖️ Veterans Crisis LineText 838255. Veterans, service members, families and friends.
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Text 838255, chat online, or dial 988 and press 1. You don’t need to be enrolled in VA benefits or health care.

The “Veteran suicide prevention” guide has more for veterans and families.
🏳️‍🌈 The Trevor ProjectText START to 678-678. LGBTQ+ young people.
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The Trevor Project offers 24/7 text, chat and phone support for LGBTQ+ young people. Text START to 678-678 or call 1-866-488-7386.

🌪️ Disaster Distress HelplineCall or text 1-800-985-5990. After disasters and tragedies.
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SAMHSA’s Disaster Distress Helpline supports anyone feeling distress after a disaster. Call or text 1-800-985-5990, 24/7. Press 2 for Spanish.

Standard text and data rates from your phone carrier may apply when texting.

What happens when you text or chat 988

Step by step, so there are no surprises.

Texting 988

  1. Text 988. You’ll get a reply with options: a counselor, Spanish support (text AYUDA), or the Veterans Crisis Line.
  2. Reply NEXT to accept the terms and move on.
  3. Answer a short survey so the counselor knows how to help.
  4. You’ll see a “wait” message while you are connected.
  5. A counselor greets you and asks if you are safe.
  6. They listen, offer support and may share resources.

Chatting on 988lifeline.org

  1. Open the chat page and answer a few short questions.
  2. Click to start the chat. This accepts the terms of service.
  3. A message tells you that you are being connected.
  4. A counselor greets you, asks if you are safe and listens.

Your question about safety is a normal part of every contact. It helps the counselor understand how best to support you.

Prefer to call? The “Calling 988: what really happens” guide walks through a phone call step by step.

What happens when you text Crisis Text Line

From your first message to feeling calmer.

  1. Text 741741. Your first message can say anything. Many people text HOME.
  2. You’ll get a few automated messages while you are matched with a counselor, usually within five minutes.
  3. A trained volunteer crisis counselor introduces themselves, listens and asks questions.
  4. You chat at your own pace. Conversations usually last 15 to 45 minutes.
  5. The conversation ends when you feel calmer and safer. The counselor may share other support.

Crisis counselors are trained volunteers, not medical professionals. They can’t give medical advice, but they can listen, help you calm down and help you plan your next step.

Texting STOP ends messages from Crisis Text Line. You can also text HOLA for support in Spanish.

Not sure what to type?

There’s no wrong way to start.

Counselors are used to people not knowing what to say. A few words is enough to begin.

Ways to start

  • “I don’t know what to say, I just feel awful.”
  • “I had a panic attack and I’m still shaking.”
  • “I’m having thoughts of ending my life.”
  • “I’m worried about my friend.”
  • “Things at home are really bad tonight.”

Being honest, especially about thoughts of suicide, helps the counselor support you. Talking about it openly is part of what these lines are there for.

The “What I’d text” worksheet lets you write a first message now, so it’s ready if you ever need it.

Privacy, safety and emergency services

What stays private, and when more help is called.

People who call, text or chat 988 are not required to give any personal information. 988 describes conversations as confidential.

Most contacts are handled entirely by talking things through. SAMHSA says only a small percentage of 988 contacts need emergency services.

🚑 When emergency help may be involvedIf someone’s life is in immediate danger and they can’t stay safe.
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SAMHSA says only a small percentage of 988 contacts need emergency services. Counselors focus on listening and helping you find ways to stay safe.

📱 Shared phonesIf others can see your phone, plan ahead.
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  • Delete the conversation afterwards if you need to
  • Hide message previews on your lock screen
  • Use web chat in a private browser window
📄 Reading the termsEach service explains how it handles conversations.
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Both 988 and Crisis Text Line ask you to accept their terms before connecting, and link to their privacy policies on their websites.

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency number.

Spanish, other languages and accessibility

Support that meets you where you are.

Options

  • 988 chat in Spanish: choose “Español” on 988lifeline.org
  • 988 in other languages: call 988 for free interpreters in more than 240 languages
  • 988 in Spanish by text: text AYUDA to 988
  • 988 by TTY: dial 711, then 988
  • 988 by videophone: dial 988 to reach counselors who use American Sign Language
  • Crisis Text Line in Spanish: text HOLA to 741741
Interpreters for other languages are offered on 988 phone calls. Text and chat are in English and Spanish.

Honest limits of text and chat

What these services can and can’t do.

  • Counselors listen and support, but don’t give medical advice or ongoing therapy
  • Research on text and chat lines is still limited
  • Typing can be slower than talking, and tone can be harder to read
  • Wait times can be longer when many people reach out at once

Researchers say chat services can add to phone lines, not replace them. If texting feels too slow or you’re in danger, calling may be quicker.

After a crisis conversation, it can help to plan a next step, like booking an appointment or telling someone you trust. The “Suicide prevention: the basics” guide has more on safety planning.

Helping someone else reach out

You can text for yourself, or for someone you’re worried about.

988 also supports people who are worried about someone else. You can contact them for advice on how to help.

If someone you care about is struggling

  1. Ask them directly how they are, and listen without judging.
  2. Be there with them, in person or by phone.
  3. Help them connect: offer to sit with them while they text or chat with a crisis line, or help write the first message.
  4. Follow up afterwards and check in.
Supporting someone in crisis can be draining. Reaching out for support yourself afterwards is a good idea.

When and where to get help

Emergencies, ongoing support, and text lines outside the U.S.

Reach out to a clinical provider or therapist if…

  • Hard moments keep coming back
  • You have texted a crisis line more than once recently
  • You want ongoing support, not just help in the moment
The “Free & low-cost therapy” guide can help if cost is getting in the way.
🍁 CanadaCall or text 9-8-8. Young people can also text CONNECT to 686868.
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9-8-8 Suicide Crisis Helpline: call or text 9-8-8, 24/7, anywhere in Canada.

Kids Help Phone: text CONNECT to 686868, or call 1-800-668-6868.

🇬🇧 United KingdomText SHOUT to 85258.
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Shout is a free, confidential, 24/7 text service. Text SHOUT to 85258.

🔎 Everywhere elseFind free helplines in your country.
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Find A Helpline lists free, confidential helplines around the world, including many that offer text or chat.

In any country, if someone is in immediate danger, call your local emergency number.

📝 Worksheets for this guide

Fill these in privately in the app. Your answers stay on your phone.

What I’d textWrite it now, while things feel calmer, so reaching out is easier if a hard moment comes.
My crisis contactsKeep the numbers you might need in one place. You can also save them in your phone.
After I reached outReaching out takes courage. Use this afterwards to notice what helped and plan your next step.
🔒 Fill in privately in the Mentally United Wellness App. Free, no ads, no accounts.

Sources

  1. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. What to Expect
  2. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Servicios en español (988 Lifeline in Spanish)
  3. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Help Someone Else
  4. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). 988 Frequently Asked Questions
  5. Crisis Text Line. Text us
  6. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). Crisis Text Line (resource listing)
  7. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (Veterans Crisis Line). Veterans Crisis Line
  8. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Get Help Right Now (How Right Now)
  9. The Trevor Project. Get Help
  10. 211 DuPage County, Illinois (government helpline directory). LGBTQ2+ Helplines: The Trevor Project
  11. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). Disaster Distress Helpline
  12. Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior (peer-reviewed, via PubMed Central) (2022). Crisis text-line interventions: Evaluation of texters’ perceptions of effectiveness (Gould et al., Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior 52(3): 583–595)
  13. Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior (peer-reviewed, via PubMed) (2021). National Suicide Prevention Lifeline crisis chat interventions: Evaluation of chatters’ perceptions of effectiveness (Gould et al., Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior 51(6): 1126–1137)
  14. Crisis (peer-reviewed, via PubMed) (2017). Expanding Suicide Crisis Services to Text and Chat (Predmore et al., Crisis 38(4): 255–260)
  15. Psychiatric Services (peer-reviewed, via PubMed) (2023). Crisis Lines: Current Status and Recommendations for Research and Policy (Zabelski et al., Psychiatric Services 74(5): 505–512)
  16. 9-8-8 Suicide Crisis Helpline (Canada). 9-8-8: Suicide Crisis Helpline
  17. Public Health Agency of Canada (Government of Canada). Get help with mental health
  18. Kids Help Phone (Canada). Kids Help Phone
  19. Shout 85258 (UK). Shout 85258
  20. NHS (UK National Health Service). Help for suicidal thoughts
  21. ThroughLine (Find A Helpline). Find A Helpline

This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

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