Discrimination at school or work: what you can do
You have the right to be treated fairly. Knowing the steps, and the deadlines, can help you feel less powerless.
By the numbers
Key numbers and deadlines to know (U.S.).
At work
At school
What counts as discrimination at work
The basics of U.S. federal law. Tap any card.
Federal law protects job applicants and employees from discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex (including pregnancy, transgender status and sexual orientation, as the EEOC lists it), national origin, age (40 or older), disability and genetic information.
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Discrimination can happen in any part of a job, from the interview to the last day. Being passed over, paid less, given worse shifts or let go because of a protected trait can all count.
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Harassment is unwelcome conduct based on a protected trait. It becomes illegal when putting up with it is a condition of keeping your job, or when it is severe or frequent enough to create a hostile work environment. Offensive jokes, slurs, name-calling, threats and ridicule can all be part of it.
Small slights or one-off comments usually don’t meet the legal bar on their own unless they are very serious. They can still hurt, and they can still be reported to your employer.
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Asking for a disability or religious accommodation is protected activity. The Job Accommodation Network (askjan.org) offers free, confidential advice on workplace accommodations.
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Employers may not punish you for complaining about discrimination, taking part in an investigation or asking for an accommodation. See the section “Protection from retaliation.”
What counts as discrimination at school or college
For students, and for parents and caregivers.
Federal civil rights laws protect students at schools and colleges that receive federal money. The U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights (OCR) handles complaints about race, color, national origin, sex, disability and age.
The U.S. Department of Justice Civil Rights Division also works on discrimination in education, including religion, and failing to support students who are learning English.
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Name-calling, threats or exclusion because of race, religion, disability, sex or national origin can be discriminatory harassment, and it can be reported.
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Being kept out of advanced classes, activities or language services, or not getting the disability services a student is entitled to, can be discrimination.
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Colleges and universities that receive federal money are covered. Your student services or disability services office can tell you how to report on campus.
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Anyone can file an OCR complaint, including a parent or someone acting for the student. Start by writing down what your child tells you, in their words, with dates.
Ways to support your child
- Believe them and thank them for telling you
- Ask what would help them feel safe at school
- Keep them in the loop about steps you take
- Watch for changes in sleep, mood or not wanting to go to school
First steps: steady yourself, then write it down
Good notes protect your options, whatever you decide.
After something unfair happens, you might feel shocked, angry or scared. It’s okay to take a breath before deciding anything. Writing things down soon after, while details are fresh, keeps every option open.
What to record
- The date, time and place.
- What was said or done, in as close to the exact words as you can remember.
- Who was involved, and who saw or heard it.
- How it affected you, your work or your studies.
- Any emails, messages, schedules, grades or reviews linked to it (save copies somewhere personal).
- Who you told about it, and when.
Speaking up inside: HR, managers and school staff
Often the first step, though not the only one.
The EEOC suggests telling the person that the behaviour is unwelcome and must stop, if you feel safe to, and reporting harassment to management early, before it gets worse. Many employers have a complaint process.
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Check your employee handbook for how to report. Putting your complaint in writing, by email, gives you a record of when you reported.
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Schools often have a staff member who handles discrimination complaints. You don’t have to use the school’s process before going to OCR. If you do, you can still file with OCR within 60 days after it ends.
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You might write
- “I’m reporting an incident on [date] when [what happened]. I believe it was because of my [trait].”
- “I’d like this investigated and for it to stop.”
- “Please confirm you’ve received this.”
Filing with the EEOC: what to expect
How to start, and the free options along the way.
The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) enforces federal job discrimination laws. In most cases you must file a charge with the EEOC before you can sue an employer for job discrimination.
Ways to start
- By phone: 1-800-669-4000 (to talk through your situation; charges aren’t taken over the phone)
- Deaf or hard of hearing: TTY 1-800-669-6820 or ASL video phone 1-844-234-5122
- In person at an EEOC office
- Online through the EEOC Public Portal (publicportal.eeoc.gov)
- Through your state or local fair employment agency, which can file with the EEOC for you
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You generally have 180 calendar days from the event, or 300 days if a state or local agency enforces a similar law. For ongoing harassment, the clock runs from the last incident. Weekends and holidays count.
Federal employees have a different process and generally must contact their agency’s EEO counselor within 45 days.
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The EEOC offers mediation at no cost to either side. Both sides must agree. A session usually lasts 3 to 4 hours, and mediated charges are usually resolved in under 3 months on average.
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If either side says no to mediation, the charge goes to an investigator. Investigations can take 10 months or more, so it helps to plan for a long process.
Filing with the Office for Civil Rights
For students at schools and colleges.
Anyone can file a complaint with the U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights, including a parent or someone acting on a student’s behalf. Complaints should generally be filed within 180 days of the last incident.
Ways to reach OCR
- Online complaint form on ed.gov
- Email: OCR@ed.gov
- Phone: 1-800-421-3481
- By mail or fax to the OCR regional office for your state
If you file a complaint for a child under 18, OCR may ask for a consent form signed by a parent or guardian.
You can also report civil rights violations in education, such as religious discrimination, to the U.S. Department of Justice at civilrights.justice.gov.
Protection from retaliation
Speaking up is protected.
It is illegal for an employer to punish you for asserting your right to be free from discrimination. The EEOC says retaliation is the most frequently alleged basis of discrimination in the federal sector.
Protected activities include
- Answering questions in a workplace investigation
- Asking coworkers or managers about pay to uncover unfair wages
- Filing a charge or complaint, or being a witness
- Reporting discrimination or harassment to a supervisor
- Requesting a disability or religious accommodation
Retaliation can look like
- Being moved to a worse position or shift
- Increased scrutiny or unfair write-ups
- Lower performance reviews without reason
- Spreading false rumours
- Threats or verbal abuse
Schools may not retaliate against anyone who files a complaint or takes part in an OCR investigation either.
Getting legal help and support
Free and low-cost help exists.
You don’t need a lawyer to file with the EEOC or OCR. Still, advice can help you understand your options and deadlines.
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The Legal Services Corporation funds legal aid organizations across every state. Its online tool finds the office for your area. USA.gov also lists ways to find free or low-cost legal help.
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Filing with a state or local fair employment agency also files your charge with the EEOC. State laws may cover smaller employers or more traits than federal law.
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The Job Accommodation Network (askjan.org) gives free, confidential guidance on workplace accommodations and disability employment questions.
Looking after yourself through a complaint
A complaint can take months. Your wellbeing matters the whole way.
Going through a complaint can feel like reliving what happened. Waiting for answers, facing the people involved and worrying about the outcome are all stressful. It’s normal to feel tired, angry or anxious along the way.
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Having people to talk to helps people cope with discrimination. Choose one or two people you can update, so you’re not carrying it alone.
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Keep all your notes in one folder. Set a time to work on it, then put it away. That stops it from taking over every evening.
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Hobbies, prayer, meditation, rest and time with people you love can help you feel steady while the process plays out.
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Not every complaint ends the way people hope. Whatever happens, you stood up for yourself. Coping with discrimination: protecting your mental health has more on healing afterwards.
When and where to get help
Signs it’s time to reach out, and where to turn.
If stress from what happened is affecting your sleep, relationships, work or studies, it’s a good time to talk with a mental health professional. Students can often see a school or campus counselor for free.
Reach out if, for two weeks or more, you notice
- Changes in appetite or weight you didn’t plan
- Difficulty getting out of bed because of your mood
- Feeling irritable, frustrated or restless most of the time
- Losing interest in things you usually enjoy
- Trouble sleeping or concentrating
Where to start
- A school, campus or workplace counselor (Employee Assistance Programs are often free)
- A therapist who understands your background
- Your primary care or clinical provider, who can help you find mental health care
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Sources
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) (2026). Table E1a: Charge Receipts by Basis or Statute (All Statutes), FY 1997–FY 2025 (Enforcement and Litigation Statistics)
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Filing a Charge of Discrimination
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). How to File a Charge of Employment Discrimination
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Contact EEOC
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Time Limits For Filing A Charge
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Get The Facts Series: Small Business Information
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Harassment
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Retaliation
- U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). Mediation
- U.S. Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights (2025). How to File a Discrimination Complaint with OCR
- U.S. Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights. Office for Civil Rights: contact information and regional offices
- Legal Aid at Work. How to File a Complaint with the Department of Education’s Office of Civil Rights
- U.S. Department of Justice, Civil Rights Division. Types of Educational Opportunities Discrimination
- U.S. Department of Justice. Hate Crimes: Get Help Now
- Job Accommodation Network (JAN), funded by the U.S. Department of Labor, Office of Disability Employment Policy. Job Accommodation Network
- Legal Services Corporation (LSC). Get Legal Help
- USA.gov. Find free or low-cost legal help
- American Psychological Association (APA) (2016). Stress in America: The Impact of Discrimination (Stress in America survey)
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This guide is for education and self-care. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. Please talk to a counselor or clinical provider about your health. Reviewed October 2026.

